Infidelity

In my experience this sucks! being cheated on was not nice and who'd expect it to be? It seems that often infidelity is completely avoidable, for example if your not happy in your relationship then you should be honest and just leave the person your with before you make a bigger mess. That I guess is all well and good if your not tied down with kids or a financial situations which make things a lot more difficult in leaving someone but I think really cheating is still avoidable although with problems like that it becomes much more difficult to be honest. The fact is that with infidelity someone is always going to get hurt! whether it be both or just one or a whole family is another story but to me betrayal like this is not good.

If I'm completely honest when asking myself would I ever cheat? I think I would and everyone else would have to agree in some situation somewhere everyone is capable, I'm not saying I'm immune from the act but my experience has told me that for me I would try and sort the problem out before it got out of hand no matter how painful it would be. I guess for some people it is doing something thats bad that makes it all the more appealing but I think there is always going to be two sides and I feel it is going to come crashing down somewhere along the line.

One thing I noticed while reading a few peoples blogs on this subject I feel that many people are very much saying that men are way more likely to do it seems to be men who suck, however again I tend to disagree, at the end of the day whatever the statistics may show I think just about as many women as men do this in one way or another! men suck and women suck just as much! good times!